Is recreational sex after marriage acceptable? No, recreational sex (swinging) is considered adultery even if it is agreed upon by both partners. God didn’t make sex to be shared with anyone else except between a husband and wife. The Bible says, “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God […]

Dear Rev. Is it a sin if I have sex with my ex-husband? He is remarried, but he wants me back. Yes, it’s a sin to have sex with your ex-husband because sex is reserved for those who are married to each other. If he’s an “ex” then you’re not married to him. Even though […]

If I am a really good girl, but I have desires of doing bad things, but I never do it (just wanting); am I going to heaven or hell? Is wishing to do bad things a sin? I appreciate that you’re trying to be a “good” girl. However, when you wish to do bad things […]

My husband died unexpectedly a few years ago. He was only 35 and I was pregnant with our fourth child at the time. Because of the circumstances I wasn’t there when he passed away and I never really got to say good-bye. I have some friends that have been to a “Medium” to attempt to […]

Dear Reverend, I understand what sin is and its consequences. Jesus said, “to look upon a women with lust is sin”. I think lusting is a sin, but only with feeling. I think the word tempting is using words without feeling, yet provoking the lust feeling to action? The action is the sin not the thought? […]